Teenage sexuality is a mutually difficult topic of discussion for both teens and their parents. Parents want their children who are now young adults to learn the practice of safe sex. Teenagers are curious about sex but definitely do not feel comfortable talking to their parents about it. This awkward situation between teenagers and their parents has been eased as a result of the media. Television shows have become useful sources of information and many infer a moral code in their episodes. The pioneer teenage drama, “Beverly Hills 90210” aired from 1990 to 2000. The success of this show largely rested upon well thought out episodes that contained dramatic life lessons. “Beverly Hills 90210” taught their audience of teenagers and their parents that sex is a very important topic. They preached that females should never feel pressured into having sex and should only take part in it when they feel that the time is right for them.
Brenda Walsh, Kelly Taylor and Donna Martin were best friends on “Beverly Hills 90210”. Brenda was a small-town girl from Minnesota who moved to Beverly Hills, California in her sophomore year of High School. Moving to a new school is never easy but moving to a school full of rich, beautiful females was even more challenging. Brenda had to figure out how she was going to fit in at her new school and how she was going to find a group of friends. Finding friends was definitely not difficult for Brenda because she met the “coolest” guy in school just a few days after moving to California. He was mysterious and all the girls at West Beverly High School wanted to be noticed by him. After he met Brenda Walsh, he only had eyes for her. They quickly jumped into what turned into a long-term relationship. Dylan was very much so sexually experienced but Brenda never had sex before. Dylan was sensitive to Brenda and did not rush her into anything she was not ready for. Finally, Brenda and Dylan had sex for the first time at the Spring Dance. Brenda expressed fear but excitement before she was with Dylan for the first time. In Episode 022 titled “The Spring Dance,” she even said to Dylan, “how many girls get to have sex for the first time with someone they love?” Afterwards, she had a huge smile on her face because she knew she made the right decision and was ready to lose her virginity to Dylan. Dylan smiled after and said, “Brenda you’re glowing.” Brenda waited until she was ready and never felt like she had to rush into having sex.
Kelly Taylor was the beautiful blonde of West Beverly High School. She was extremely wealthy and even more popular. All girls envied her and all guys wanted to be with her. Kelly knew that she had a power over men that most women would kill for. She at first thought that she needed to use this to her advantage and she ended up having sex for the first time in a way she wished to forget. She was a freshman in high school and went after an older guy who was on the football team. When he finally noticed her, he took her out for a night she would never forget. Instead of a romantic date, which was what she wanted, he brought her to a dark and lonely spot in the woods. He proceeded to forcefully have sex with Kelly on the ground and then never speak to her again. Kelly became known as “easy” and a “bimbo” and for a while she did not think she deserved better so she lived up to her title. Eventually she realized that she was worth more than the way guys had treated her. In Episode 013 titled “Slumber Party,” Kelly told her girlfriends how terrible her first sexual experience was and how lucky they rest of them were that they did not rush into anything sexually. With tears in her eyes, Kelly explained to her friends that “he didn’t even bring a blanket.” At that moment it was quite clear that Kelly would do anything to be able to take back her first sexual experience. She thought it would make her cool but she had sex with someone she did not love and someone she was not ready to be intimate with. She had the experience and her advice to all her friends was wait until you all feel that you are truly ready.
Donna Martin was also a beautiful wealthy blonde. She was shy and believed in the strong values that her parents had taught her. The strongest value that Donna’s parents taught her was to stay a virgin until she was married. This was something that Donna’s struggled with all through high school and college. Donna’s first boyfriend, David Silver, was not very popular in his first year of high school. Donna was attracted to him for reasons unknown to her very popular friends. David was curious about sex and figured Donna was too. In Episode ---, She explained to him, “I am a virgin and I’m not going to have sex with anybody until I am married.” Donna showed extreme courage by being able to stand up for herself and not let her boyfriend pressure into anything she did not feel right doing. David did respect Donna’s wishes and remained her boyfriend even after he knew they were not going to have sex. Donna eventually lost her virginity to David after they graduated college. They broke up for a period of time but then got back together. Donna knew that David was the guy she wanted to be with for the rest of her life so she felt comfortable having sex with him. The show did end with David and Donna getting married. This proved that true love does exist and that girls should not think that their boyfriends are just in a relationship for sex.
“Media Interventions to Promote Responsible Sexual Behavior” is an extremely informative scholarly article from The Journal of Sex Research. It was produced in February 2002 by Sarah H. Keller of Emerson College and Jane D. Brown of the University of North Carolina. This article explains how the media plays a large role in the minds of teenagers. It says that there are many ways to teach sex education to teenagers but the media is truly the best way. It gets the attention of teenagers that pamphlets, brochures and the Internet will never reach. The cultural message is that teenagers listen to popular television, radio and movies. Popular forms of media are great ways to get the attention of teenagers. They listen to their favorite television “characters” and thus teaching safe sex on television is very useful for teenagers.
“Beverly Hills 90210” went even further than this article because the show was very realistic about the sexual experience of teenagers. Beverly Hills used the three main female characters to promote not only safe sex but also how to display maturity when dealing with sex. The show demonstrated through these three females that girls should never feel pressured into having sex. It has to feel right and they have to want to do it. Beverly Hills knew that teaching abstinence was pointless because most teenagers were experimenting so they wanted to leave their viewers with helpful life lessons about this uncomfortable topic.
“Beverly Hills 90210” used inclusion to get their important message about sex across to their audience. Parents felt like they had a show that their teens could watch to learn the helpful tips that they did not know how to express to their children. Teenagers’ felt like there was always somebody in the same situation as them and they were not alone while making very tough decisions. If girls had a long-term boyfriend who they loved but did not know if they were ready to have sex they looked to Brenda for advice. It girls felt that they were being taken advantage of they turned to Kelly for advice. If girls knew they wanted to be a virgin until they were married they turned to Donna for advice. This show could always help their viewers with the tough decisions that come with teenage life.
